It may seem daunting to take a baby or a toddler on a plane with you, especially for the first time. But it’s actually quite safe -- and manageable! -- to take a baby, toddler or both on a plane, as long as you follow a few guidelines. Here are some tips for a smooth flight:

• Fly at off-peak times – Tuesdays and Wednesdays during the day (as opposed to early morning and after work flights) are the least populated. By requesting a window and aisle seat at these times, you increase your chances of finding an empty center seat, leaving a space for your car seat (should you choose not to pay for an extra seat for baby).



• Consider bulkhead seats – they may offer more room to maneuver, especially when changing a diaper. Request these seats in advance if you want them.



• Shoot for nap time – flying during baby’s nap time may ensure a quieter experience for you and your fellow passengers.



• Book a non-stop flight – avoid the hassle of getting on and off planes and resettling baby each time.



• Change diapers before you board – changing diapers on a plane is a difficult – and messy! – thing to deal with. Only do it if you have to.



• Stuff your diaper bag or carry-on with more than you think you’ll need – in case of emergencies, it’s a good idea to bring twice as much as you anticipate using. Some ideas: extra outfits for you and baby, snacks, milk and juice (if baby is old enough), diapers, wipes, medicine and lots of toys! A fascinating thing for some babies and toddlers is a small photo album with pictures of family members they can review during the flight.



• Bring something to suck on – during takeoffs and landings, it’s helpful to have something for baby to suck on so the pressure doesn’t hurt her ears. Consider breastfeeding, a bottle, juice box, pacifier or teether.



• Purchase your baby a seat if his own – if you’re flying during peak times and don’t want to risk not having a seat for baby’s car seat, bite the bullet and pay for an extra seat for baby (it's usually half the price of an adult fare). This way, you ensure his safety and have more room for you and your gear.



• Request kids’ meals – when booking your child’s flight, ask for a kid’s meal rather than an adult’s.



• Bring a stroller – umbrella strollers can be taken on the plane with you. If baby is too young for an umbrella stroller, check her stroller at the gate and it will be waiting for you when you get off the plane.